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Nothing to See Here. Just a Couple of People Baring All!

T Mann
4 min readJan 19, 2023

About Me, articles are so last year. Play ToT instead! — Brett Jenae Tomlin

Row housing with two doors to choose, one yellow on the right and a red one on the left.
Photo by Robert Anasch on Unsplash

You know the old saying we all heard as kids? “If everyone else jumped off a bridge, would you jump too?” Our moms loved reminding us how to be individuals and think for ourselves.

What fun is that?

I am jumping, thanks to my writing pal, who often leads me astray, Patricia Haddock. Apparently, it wasn’t enough for her to bare her soul; she invited others to join in the revelation.

If you are curious about how this all began, it started quite innocently, at least, I hope that was the intention of Brett Jenae Tomlin, aka the anxiousenthusiast . And you know what the worst part is? I saw this last week and thought, sure, why not. Then today, when I sat down to knock this prompt off my list, I discovered it is a contest in BJ’s This or That Publication.

I have a love/hate relationship with competition. My competitive side won’t disappear, and my thirst for time for myself and other endeavors goes dry.

So here goes nothing!

This or That?

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T Mann

Writer, wife, mom, nana, and🍷 lover sharing life lessons and adventures of Self-improvement /Advice/ Relationships/ and more, one story at a time.